While I heard of Si Dian Jin (四点金) before, I never knew or understood what it meant exactly. Si Dian Jin was made known to me by my mother and mother-in-law when it was my turn to get married. I soon learned that it is a beautiful, wonderful Chinese tradition that is to be cherished and preserved. Si Dian Jin is usually a gift given from the groom’s mother to the bride, to symbolise giving her blessings and her welcoming the bride into the family. My mother also passed down to me her own Si Dian Jin set that she received from her mother in law when she got married,…